This is really good advice, it is the best way to try and make sense of what you are hearing to identify why you are dissatisfied. It is sad to hear of your ill health and poor outcome after placing your trust in a dealer to do the right thing by you. Any of us that have been at this for decades can relate to why you might have wanted to dive into buying your ultimate system so the letdown must be doubly bitter This hobby on the face if it should be simple enough but since it was hijacked by pseudo science in the 70's, it has become fraught to obtain fair value. Mix in unscruplous dealers who are happy to play in the gray areas and make sprurious claims backed by bullshit science and its little wonder it has the hallmakrs of a placebo, faith driven cult.
This is a kind offer, Michael is extremely knowledgable and has 'been there, done that'. His advice could be just what you need to set you back on the path to nirvana.
Good luck and I hope you find what you are looking for soon.